Do you think children should be taught that everyone wins?
I had a parent pose this question to me:
Do you think there is a long-term cost for the “everybody wins” point of view so many put on kids’ sports these days?
I know what I think, but I can see two sides of the coin. I’ve had my kids be on teams where everyone received a trophy, and I’ve also seen them throw those trophies aside because my young athletes felt they were meaningless.
Pros for “everyone wins:”
Cons for “everyone wins:”
What do you think?
Is there a time and place for the everyone-wins philosophy in youth sports?
Janis B. Meredith, sports mom and coach's wife, writes a sports parenting blog called JBM Thinks. She authored the Sports Parenting Survival Guide Series and has