One of the biggest frustrations that parents of youth athletes often face are coaches who don’t clearly and effectively communicate scheduling, and changes to the schedule.
As a sports parent, I’ve worked with a variety of coaches, some that communicated well and many that didn’t. Here’s what I wanted to know from each coach:
Many coaches hold a pre-season meeting and I always appreciated when coaches covered these topics as well:
Sports parents have hectic schedules and do not want to be surprised after the season has already begun. They want to know all the details up front. They want to know what to expect from the coach, what is expected of them, and what is expected of their kids. Consistent, clear communication is the only thing that will keep things running smoothly on the team.
If the true purpose of youth sports is for kids to grow and develop, then it’s also important for coaches to communicate the why behind the what. Why your child isn’t getting as much playing time as she wants. Why your son can’t play the position he wants. Why the coach is running this offense or defense. When parents and athletes are equally informed, it will go a long way on cutting down the season’s conflicts.
Janis B. Meredith, sports mom and coach’s wife, writes a sports parenting blog called jbmthinks.com. Her new book 11 Habits for Happy and Positive Sports Parents is on Amazon.